La separación de Chris Martin y Gwyneth Paltrow. Sus hijos Apple y Moses

Just what is 'consciously uncoupling'?

Gwyneth Paltrow has described her separation from Chris Martin as a "conscious uncoupling". But what is that, asks Tom de Castella.

The couple said they had "come to the conclusion that while we love each other very much, we will remain separate". It went on: "We hope that as we consciously uncouple and co-parent, we will be able to continue in the same manner."

It's a new one in the celebrity split lexicon. Seal and Heidi Klum said they'd "grown apart". Dawn French and Lenny Henry, on splitting, said they "fully intend to maintain their close friendship". Brad Pitt and Jennifer Aniston said: "We happily remain committed and caring friends with great love and admiration for one another."

The new formulation comes from an essay, On Conscious Uncoupling, written by Paltrow's spiritual advisers Dr Habib Sadeghi and Dr Sherry Sami. "Although it looks like everything is coming apart; it's actually all coming back together," they conclude. The Oxford English Dictionary has a citation of the use of "uncoupling" to describe the end of relationships from 1942.

Divorce lawyer Sarah Thompson, of Slater and Gordon, says uncoupling reminds her of two railway carriages being separated. The addition of the word "conscious" is there to tell people it's amicable. She says she wouldn't be surprised if Paltrow and Martin use collaborative law - both parties sitting down at a table with a lawyer each and going through everything. "It's often described as the nicest way to get divorced."

When, as in the Paltrow-Martin case, there are children involved, it's a good idea to use age-appropriate language, says Denise Knowles, a counsellor at Relate. People getting divorced have a lot of "anger, sadness and conflict," she says. But agreeing to split can be a step in the right direction.

These phrases can smack a little of euphemism, says relationship expert Judi James - the uncoupling terminology hints at an attempt to suggest that rather than being a wholly bad thing, this could actually be another step in life's surprising journey.

http://www.bbc.com/news/blogs-magazine-monitor-26749152
 
Bueno, bueno... ¡Hasta me he encontrado un programa de 5 semanas en Internet para aprender qué es esto de "Conscious Uncoupling"!
¿Qué he hecho de mi vida hasta ahora? Las infantas españolas cesan temporalmente en la convivencia y las actrices se desparejan conscientemente.
Mientras tanto yo he cometido la vulgaridad de separarme, así como suena.

http://evolvingwisdom.com/consciousuncoupling/free-online-class/

Malicias aparte, que tengan buena suerte en sus nuevas vidas.
 
Bueno, entonces es menos separación si lo denominan "Conscious Uncoupling". Es mucho mejor llamarlo así que divorcio o separación a secas. Ahora habrá que pensar bien las cosas. ¿La separación es a secas o conscious? No, no la nuestra es conscious. La separación a secas es de personas poco dadas a separarse. De hecho, la conscious va acompañada de vacaciones en familia, que todavía hay clases. Y los niños sufren menos con la conscious. Lo de llamarlo divorcio es una ordinariez que predispone a los pobres niños a pasarlo muy mal.
Cuánta tontería.
 
Las de las clases populares nos separamos y divorciamos. Aunque sea de manera meditada y madura no es lo mismo que el unconscious coupling, por favor...
Copio y pego un comentario de @karlota que está en el hilo dedicado a Morante de la Puebla y que me parece fantástico:

Eso depende de la situación social y económica del personaje.

Los de escala social media-baja son horteras, los ricos tienen estilo personal.
Los de escala social media-baja son tarados, los ricos excéntricos.
Las de escala social media-baja son chonis, las ricas explosivas.
Los de escala social media-baja son incultos, los ricos se han hecho a si mismos.
Los de escala social media-baja son inaguantables, los ricos tienen un caracter peculiar.
....
 
Estupendo artículo de Charlotte Alter en Time.

http://time.com/38650/what-gwyneth-paltrow-really-means-by-conscious-uncoupling/

The actress also known as Goop is rebranding her divorce as 'conscious uncoupling.' What else will she rebrand in her post-Martin world?

Gwyneth Paltrow doesn’t eat cereal, she eats quinoa granola with olive oil. She doesn’t go to the gym, she does “brain activated” Tracy Anderson Method dance cardio. And she doesn’t get divorced from the father of her two children, she “consciously uncouples” from him, as she explained in an announcement posted on her lifestyle website, Goop.com.

Apparently Paltrow wants to differentiate herself from all those people who get divorced while unconscious.

She and her website seem to hate messy emotions about as much as they hate gluten, cupcakes, and lying around on the couch like a normal person. That’s why she’s choosing to “consciously uncouple” from her musician husband Chris Martin instead of going through the painful and often enraging process of splitting up a family like the rest of us do when a marriage isn’t working.

The uncoupling announcement caused such a traffic hit to Goop.com that it crashed the site. This intense interest in how Goop would handle divorce seems to open up all kinds of new marketing possibilities to Paltrow. After all she’s already told us how she managed to uncouple herself from post-partem weight, processed foods, tasteless home decor and general sloth. Now she can tell us how to uncouple ourselves from all the awful parts of divorce so we can be happy, gluten-free single parents.

But before we get onboard with Paltrow’s latest bit of transformational lifestyle advice, we might want to learn a little more about this “conscious uncoupling” she speaks of.

Therapist “Transformational Teacher” Katherine Woodward Thomas spends almost an hour explaining “conscious uncoupling” with her soft-spoken bearded friend in this “Cutting Edge Consciousness”video for people who have nothing else to do. Thomas says “conscious uncoupling” is a five-week process (like a cleanse?) in which individuals “devote themselves to a conscious process” of getting over a relationship without bitterness so that you don’t turn your “soul-mate” into “soul-hate.” You have to “midwife” the “the energy of your emotions” in order to use the “energy of transformation” for a “constructive expression.” Dr. Thomas says Nelson Mandela is a perfect example of this kind of consciousness–because being in jail for 26 years is kind of like getting over a breakup.

If you’re confused, you’re not alone. Here’s a handy (made-up) Goop to English translator to help you understand other post-divorce life events that may one day befall Gwyneth Paltrow and her family.

Dictionary of 10 Goopy Terms:

“Time Managed Co-Parenting” = Joint custody

“Compassionate Post-Conscious-Uncoupling Resource Distribution” = Alimony

“Toxin” = Candy

“Youthful Journey-Finding” = When daughter Apple says “I want to go to Dad’s house where there’s candy!”

“Maintaining Post-Pleasure Tranquility” = Making sure new boyfriend sneaks out before kids wake up

“Embracing Joyous Change” = Introducing kids to new boyfriend

“Accepting a New Element” = Introducing kids to dad’s new girlfriend

“Intergenerational Quality Time for Love and Learning” = When Grandma comes to stay for two weeks so you can go to Fiji with new boyfriend

“Tolerating the Expansion of Horizons” = When dad’s new girlfriend gives Moses a pack of Twizzlers

“A Communal Tranquility Event” = When all four parents and step-parents are at the school play

Congratulations! Now you’re fluent in Goop.
 
pues por lo visto quien a montao los cuerno fue ella, ya salieron las fotos que tenian guardadas donde ella sale besando a su ex en septiembre pasado :whistle:

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Pero en esas fotos se ve que estaban sus hijos y fue en un juego de los Dodgers, el equipo de béisbol más importante de los Angeles, o sea estaban en un evento lleno de cámaras. No la creo tan tonta; es casi lo mismo que poner los cuernos en un partido de la NBA siendo famoso. Tal vez la foto magnifica el beso y por el número de asientos, se ve que él no estaba sentado con ellos. Aparte, el ex es bastante conocido y también está casado.

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Donovan es hijo de un cantante bastante conocido del mismo nombre y hermano de la actriz Ione Skye. Es un niño criado en Hollywood, como ella. Se ve que se conocen desde hace siglos.
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Él está casado desde hace 17 años con la ex modelo Kirsty Hume, que fue muy popular en los 90. Dudo que sean tan descuidados poniendo cuernos, además en una fecha tan cercana al aniversario de él: las fotos son del 11 de septiembre y el aniversario de él es el 23 de ese mismo mes, como se ve en la foto de abajo.
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Y la nota del beso salió el año pasado.
http://www.dailyrecord.co.uk/entert...break-scottish-supermodel-kirsty-hume-2289840
 
Esta tía es lo más tonto que existe.

Y de guapa nasti de plasti. Ya le gustaría a ella. Ésta es la clásica que va de guapa sin serlo, como la Pe y otras de ese pelo.

A Chris Martin le ha tocado la lotería con este divorcio, sin duda.
 
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